Dress Up/ Pics to Show The Girlfriend

Apparently I have gotten too good at tuning the kids out when they are loud.

As soon as we got back home from school, the kids decided to play dress-up and I sat in front of the computer to veg out from my day of driving. Dress-up started innocently enough...

And then I looked up to see this...

...and then this...

Once they were both dressed up, Jazzy asked Taylor to dance with her. Which I guess was just totally out of the question. Dress in drag? Yes! Dance with your little sister? Heck no!

I'll be sure to save this pic for his first girlfriend.

Month O' Birthdays

October is apparently THE month for birthdays. We took Bella and Sophia to Phoenix with us the first weekend of the month for Mikey and Joshy's joint birthday party. Mikey's b-day is actually in September, but the Back Pack decides to double the fun and they have another joint bday party in January for the rest of the clan. Since it has been pretty hot, they had lots of fun water games and then the kids enjoyed superhero cookies and cupcakes. Joshy actually shares a birthday with our step-mom Ramona.

The following weekend we went to Jazzy's little friends joint b-day party at Pump It Up. Matt is in her preschool class and Reese is his equally fun cousin who is in the 4 year old preschool class. The kids love Pump It Up and had a blast! Taylor pretty much takes off and does his own thing, Jazzy has to have someone with her at all times, so Brooks and I were a little sore from climbing up the equipment. I made Brooks take her down the big slide, which is fun, but I am a weenie and without fail every time I get to the top of the slide I have this moment of panic trying to decide if I really have to do this. Brooks and I also decided to race each other through the obstacle course. In all fairness he totally would have beaten me if it weren't for the three kids blocking him from the final slide. We'll be having Taylor's party at Pump It Up (I think anyway, if we can get the guest list down a bit), so I took the opportunity to check out the party room and get an idea of how we could decorate. For all the planning I have done for other events, I always seem to drop the ball when it comes to the kids b-days. Not this year! Brooks still asks now why every party has to be like a Sweet Sixteen. Oh, that poor man hasn't seen anything yet! I have started my spreadsheet for Tayor's birthday as and soon as we figure out whether we can do one big party or will do two smaller ones, we'll be good to go!

This weekend we have my little brother Gabe's birthday. But, in true Mexican style, it hasn't really been planned yet. I am hoping they decide to barbecue because I am in the mood for some carne asada. We've actually only been to dinner there once since we've been back. I've asked Brooks a couple of times if we could call and see if we could go over for dinner; in true white man fashion he thinks we'd be imposing though. So the only rice and beans we have had (since I am not allowed to make beans) have been at Taco Tote and On The Border.

Finally, it is Sam and Katie's birthday on October 27th. I can't believe those kids are going to be 13! We went to Grammy's ranch last Friday for a visit since the kids had the day off for a grading day, but since Sam and Katie are in a different district they were still in school. I did however catch a glimpse of their birthday wish lists, which both included ipads. Thank goodness my kids are cool with Transformers and Barbies now. I'd like to prolong them being expensive teenagers for as long as possible.

Soleng Tom

The move back to Tucson really hasn't been bad at all, and one of the reasons why is the amazing school the kids are going to. Good Lord was finding Taylor a school a nightmare, but after the first week I knew we'd made the right decision. His teacher is great- she is just the right mix of experience, compassion and being on the ball. He seems to have a pretty good mix of kids in his class- there are some sweet girls who are very kind to him, lots of silly boys for him to be goofy with and not too many troublemakers where I have to worry about him being picked on or left out.

I've been volunteering on Tuesdays in Taylor's class. This past Tuesday I made a "quick stop" at Target just before my shift and managed to lock the keys in the car. AAA took 2 hours to get there, which meant I missed my whole volunteer shift. I had called the office and since he had a sub that day, it didn't seem like it would be a big deal, but I stopped by his class anyway to check on Taylor since this was a big deviation to his routine. He was fine but wanted me to stay for lunch. The other kids were beyond adorable! I received quite a few hugs, they seemed worried about me and one kid asked if I had gotten locked in the trunk. I don't know if the sub was that happy to see me, but the kids seemed relieved I was OK.

It's weird being called "Mrs. Wintemute" though, and I am not sure if I will ever get used to that. I think when I am a teacher I will have the kids call me Mrs. W if they like. There is a boy who is also in Cub Scouts with Taylor and he thinks it is pretty cool that he knows my name is Laura and always calls me that, which is totally fine with me. I don't mind my last name, it is just weird being so formal.

Aside from volunteering, I am also co-CEO for the class which means I help to organize the classroom events. It's neat being so involved and give me lots of extra opportunities to spy on my Little Man. At this point, he thinks it pretty neat and I hope he always does.

He's been talking a lot about going to college, and I can tell he is worried about it. He had a sub last year when he was in Kindergarten who made some comment that he would move out when he went to college. He cries when he talks about it now, so I tell him he can always live at home and when he goes to college it can be just like it is now when he goes to school. I will happily drop him off, have lunch with him and park and stalk him as he walks to classes.  I reassured him that even when he works for NASA I will still have lunch with him.

I am sure someday he'll decide he wants to do things with his friends and without his mom. Until then though, I am loving this time we can spend together.

From the Mouth of Babes

Today Taylor was on a roll. Here's some of what he said:

"Mom, I know you're smart because you married Dad...so tell me- how to bones move?"

"I was thinking about it, and I don't think I want to have my own family when I am big. I think you guys might need a third parent."



My sister refers to these as "Taylor-ism" and tells me I should write them down. Some days he is downright hilarious, so I really should get better about remembering them. The other day Jazzy was on a roll as well:

"Mom, why do you write letters on my water bottle?"
"That's your name, Jazzy. That way everyone at school knows  it is your bottle and no one takes it."
"Mama- what happens if Target didn't have letters on it?"

Sleeping Angels

No matter how crazy or chaotic the day has been, my babies turn into beautiful little angels when they sleep. After they are tucked in and fall asleep, Brooks and I usually stay up to watch a movie or one of our TV shows. Then, when it is our bedtime, we go back in the room to fix their covers, adjust their stuffed animals, and I always whisper in their ears "mama loves you."

Because I do.